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Too Frugal, or Not Too Frugal. That is the Question.

Here is an article I read in Reader’s Digest:

Question from a reader:  I have to use things until they wear out before getting new ones. It took me seven years to use up 14 bottles of nail polish. I should get a new pair of sandals, but my old ones aren’t completely worn-out yet, so I’ll wait. My friends tell me this is not normal.

Answer:  Do the old sandals damage your feet? Is there a masochistic “I am not worthy” element to your frugality? If so, you have a psychological issue that needs to be addressed. But if you value things merely for their utility, then your example may prove something profound: You are normal, and the rest of us, in our mad material dash are, well, mad. As Arthur Gish put it in Beyond the Rat Race, a classic meditation on simplicity, “We buy things we do not need to impress people we do not like.”  Most of us buy and waste, waste and buy, at landfill-filling rates that are alarming, if not psychotic. Your thrift, says Nando Pelusi, PhD, a clinical psychologist in New York City, may take asceticism to new levels, “but, who knows,” he says, “you just might be saving the planet!”

Posted by CarlaRae Arneson on February 6th, 2009 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Trackback (0)

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